Before being a professional Numerologist and card reader (also known as cartomancy), I was having a reading or a couple of readings done every month (if not more…).
I had selected a few good readers and was relying solely on them to predict my life.
Feeling uplifted when you usually feel desperate can become addictive if I am being honest.
The biggest misconception about readings: Predictions
Let’s dive in right away: people come to me for predictive readings. I am trying to offer guidance and coaching, but I happen to get some readings where my guidance is not solicited. And I perfectly understand this misconception simply because readings have been known to be predictive for so long!
If you think that a reading’s sole purpose is to give predictions on your life, please raise your hand? Ok, I’ll go first. That’s what I thought for years and years and years.
It’s taken me to study to become a professional reader to understand that it was a huge disservice to give the impression that a psychic reading is a succession of predictions. It is as if a situation could be set in stone.
This couldn’t be further from the truth.
A reading has nothing to do with predictions, pure predictions I mean.
The danger of considering a psychic reading as a series of predictions
· Power
Thinking that a psychic reading is purely predictive would imply that we readers hold incredible power over your life and that would make you dependent on us. Scary thought that is!
If you become dependant on a reading you are simply giving your power away.
· Addiction
You become addicted to hopeful news and then refute what doesn’t feel so joyful.
I did the same thing so I can relate! I used to call as many readers I knew of until I was hearing what I wanted to hear. I think I was of need of positive brainwashing! Unless I am a little masochist, who knows.
· Debt!
I am a bit ashamed to confess that at some point in my life when I was feeling very low, I was having so many readings that my salary wasn’t enough anymore to cover for my addiction.
I was in debt of nearly 2000€. The bank started hunting me down and the phone line got cut off so that I wouldn’t be able to call from the landline. I found myself in despair. I couldn’t think straight, all I could think about was how to get money to ring them up. I couldn’t stop either because I needed my “all will be okay” fix.
Why put yourself in danger?
· Hope
In our society still based upon perceptions and having filters whereby money, status, and appearances seem to dominate, it is easy to feel quickly engulfed in a spiral of negativity.
so, if you ever find yourself without money, without a job, suffering from a breakup, loving someone and wanting them into your life, it is easy to feel vulnerable and not see the wood for the trees.
When that happens, in desperation, you seek help. I think that more than help, you want hope.
Hope that the reader is going to say that everything is going to be fine, that there is a better future for you.
Who wouldn’t?
· Lack of self-belief
But if occasional guidance is ok, routine readings are less so. Because it shows that you don’t believe that you can manifest a better future for yourself.
I feel quite embarrassed to write these words because I can give you the name of an astrologer and a card reader who would give my name for this! And they would be right.
I know all about lack of self-belief. Not at work, not in society, but in relationships. My goodness. Talk about having the wrong filters!
· Lack of decisiveness
Needing a reading to feel better sometimes can also be due to lack of decisions. I remember when I wouldn’t take an inspired leap of faith because I had been told it wasn’t going to happen! I have wasted so much time!
But when you give your power away, it’s a myriad of inner goodness you are not activating anymore because you are afraid. You just don’t want the bad patterns to repeat themselves.
· Lack of awareness
But this all comes to one thing, really: a lack of awareness. Awareness of what a reading is. Awareness of where you stand in the mix. Awareness around the power within you that lies in your wonderful imagination and your belief system.
So, What is a psychic reading?
· Validation
You should have a reading done to validate your energy and see where you are at.
Cards are going to expose the energy you find yourself into at the moment you ask for a reading. You have the regular energy and you have the disruptive type of energy. Nevertheless, everything is energy.
Reading your energy will consist of having a look at the way you think and feel at any given point in your life.
This is going to be effective because it will show obstacles and potential of the situations you are enquiring about.
· Reassurance
Say you want to have someone specific in your life and you have no idea how this could pan out. A psychic reading is going to give you clarity on the potential. It can also display how the other person is currently feeling towards you.
When you are unsure and need reassurance, it always helps to know that the person you love is also interested.
· Clarity
Life can seem complicated at times. And the more you think about it, the more it seems to elude you.
A reading can help in clarifying the situation for you because we are neutral and we don’t judge.
Sometimes, it is even difficult to confide with family members or friends when a situation is a bit tricky, a reading offers you peace of mind in confidence.
· Guidance
This is absolutely critical. A reading that comes without proper guidance is like buying a turkey for Thanksgiving without knowing how to cook it and stuff it. You have the main ingredient but you don’t really know what to do with it.
A psychic reading is the same. If you have been given a set of information and “predictions”, it’s all good. But how do you feel if nothing happens after a few weeks or months?
You can think the reader was rubbish. That’s cool. But much more concerning is that you could be thinking that your life is not going to get better because you don’t know how to improve it. So, what do you do? You have another reading done.
A guidance – or a coaching session, is imperative for you to feel both uplifted and in your power.
My readings
A reading with me has 3 elements: cards to see where your energy is at; from the cards, I can tell the potential of any given situation. Numerology determines the strengths you have, which you can use in your advantage to overcome situations.
I then offer a Law of Attraction or Manifesting/Manifestation coaching based on Neville Goddard’s principles (similar to Advanced Techniques in the Law of Attraction) and give you guidance of how to manifest what you want from where you are at while taking your energy into consideration.
Conclusion
A psychic reading is helpful as long as you know that it provides guidance and can help in clarifying your situation. You should expect to be guided as of how to manifest what you want and to show you how to be in your power.
What’s next?
If you’d like to have a unique reading with me, click on the link here and you will have a full card/numerology/coaching reading within 48 to 72 hours. Prices are reasonable to allow everyone to get this unique experience.
Sabine is a manifesting coach with a passion to help her clients improve their love life and career. She believes that everything and everyone is energy, and that you are the operant power of your reality.
She uses the Law of Assumptions as taught by Neville Goddard, to which she has added her knowledge of NLP, of energy healing and numerology to drastically improve your self-concept and ease your manifestation.
She is passionate about what she does and wants to help you design the life you wish to experience!