I can genuinely say that most of my sessions talk about manifesting an ex back or a specific person back and how to overcome pitfalls. Yes, there are manifesting tips that can help you manifest your ex back or your SP, especially if you pay attention to what you do. And if you are conscious of your manifesting mindset.
When your ex has broken up with you, your first set of thoughts are usually:
- Why would my SP want me back? Or why would my ex want me back?
- What does my SP think about me now?
- How does my ex feel about me?
- Has my SP moved on?
- Is it still possible 100% to get my SP back? Or ex back?
All those manifesting questions are valid, but they are not the questions that should concern you. The only questions worth your attention should be around your self-concept, the version of your SP that you are manifesting back and the version of you who is manifesting your ex back.
Then and only then will you know that you are on the path to naturally manifest any specific person of your choosing.
Self-concept tips to manifest your ex back
Your questions:
- Why would my SP want me back?
- Why should my ex be with me?
- Wouldn’t my ex be better off with someone prettier or smarter or whatever?
When you doubt that you are good enough for your SP to want to be with you, you are looking at your manifestation in the wrong way. Ask yourself: who is making the decisions here? See, if you wonder why your ex would want you back, your ex is THE priority in the relationship. All you do is hope you meet his expectations. Wrong.
The manifesting issue you are facing is that manifesting your SP back with the same questions you had when they left is not going to turn out good. Manifesting is not waving at a magic wand when you feel desperate, needy and the last person your SP wants to be with.
Manifesting will feel like waving at a magic wand as you change the version of you with a poor self-concept to the version of you who always gets what she or he wants.
This is what working on your self-concept does for you. It is for you to ask yourself other questions implying that your SP is an idiot if they don’t want to be with you because you are obviously la crème de la crème. Period.
Manifesting answers
When you didn’t know your SP even existed, you were not asking yourself if that specific person would want to stay with you. In fact, you met your SP maybe in unexpected ways and you hit it off naturally. After the honeymoon period though, your old beliefs rushed back and you got afraid to lose that SP who is so wonderful. Oh, because you’re not? If you’re not wonderful, why did your SP start a relationship with you in the first place? Did they make a mistake the first date, the first kiss? NO! They knew what they were doing. They wanted you and no one else. In fact, you were probably on their mind 24/7 back then.
So, they thought you were wonderful. But, I see you coming, next you will tell me that they changed only when they got to know you. Oh, ok, your SP discovered you were not that great after all, is that it? NO. Men and women alike find no pleasure in going from SP to SP unless they are emotionally immature. And men don’t want to risk having their girlfriend be touched by another man.
Your SP dated you and knowingly fell in love with you in the first place. It is you who have changed in your beliefs / assumptions and feelings. Fear replaced love. Doubts replaced genuine fun.
Therefore, understand that your SP fell for you then because you are great, and that’s final. Don’t overthink it. Tip: list all your qualities as a girlfriend, partner, wife. The rest is irrelevant.
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Universal time versus physical reality time
This is a trigger for most manifestors, let’s be honest. This is what my video is about and what you can do about it. I feel that it is critical that you handle that expectation well to relax around your manifestations. This is also part of letting go. Letting go being to stop the need to control, including controlling time.
The link is below, worth watching:
Wanting a repeat of the same version of an SP
Your questions
- My SP is a player, but I want him to be faithful to me again
- My SP is non-committal, but I will manifest him to commit to me irrespective
- My SP is non-communicative, but I want him to text me every day
Based on this, you will certainly craft great affirmations such as:
- ‘I am so happy to see that my SP is faithful to me” while resenting the last time he cheated on you
- “I am so happy that my ex wants to commit to me no matter what” while crying because you just got a text from your SP that they only want to be friends
- “I am so happy that my SP texts me everyday” while looking at your phone desperately, hoping to see that miraculous text.
Manifesting answers
If you want to experience another version of your SP, change the way you perceive them. If you think or believe or have experienced them to be a player, a cheater, a womaniser, non-communicative, you may repeat your affirmations until you turn blue in the face, your results will be short-lived.
Bottom line, always think of them as the great guy you know they can be. Never dwell on the past if the past was challenging.
Also, I assume you want your SP back because they have matching qualities to yours. I mean, who would want to be with a player? You are creating your life, not trying to patch things up.
So, assuming your specific person is great or that you see through the last version of them, go for it. In other words, I assume your SP is worth your time manifesting another version of them?
If you would like some guidance, remember that I do have a few courses at an affordable price:
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I know you can do it, I believe in you, so on that note, happy manifesting!
Sabine is a manifesting coach with a passion to help her clients improve their love life and career. She believes that everything and everyone is energy, and that you are the operant power of your reality.
She uses the Law of Assumptions as taught by Neville Goddard, to which she has added her knowledge of NLP, of energy healing and numerology to drastically improve your self-concept and ease your manifestation.
She is passionate about what she does and wants to help you design the life you wish to experience!